BBW dating can be a tough world and frustration is normal, but how do you send messages after messages without losing your patience or your ideas? While it's easy to find the right person, we know that you're looking for the right person to set up a hookup date, which may take some time and a few meetings, so here are some ways to keep your search from going crazy.
First, make changes every now and then. Do you meet potential mates at the same bar every time, or do you stay in the same motel so often that the front desk staff knows your name? Change your habits. The first meeting is not just a job interview, it's held in the same place every time. This is a new adventure and new potential, so treat it as such. Choose a new location for each meeting, or at least rotate between several good locations.
Chubby women usually don't care where they go, as long as they have fun there, so try something new and you'll connect with a spirit of adventure and openness.
Next, you need to really understand that it's ok to be very picky about your BBW dating or BBW hookup. There's no rule that says you have to date everyone who emails you, or that you have to answer emails with mutual consent. There are many people in your life who will encourage you to settle or compromise, but there's no reason you can't get what you want. Just remember, if you want one in a thousand curvy women, you probably need to talk to a lot of people to find her!
There's nothing like constantly meeting BBW women you're not interested in to increase your frustration. While it's good to give someone a chance, don't settle for an imperfect match, one that gives you energy instead of destroying it.
This may sound like common sense, but consider doing more than curvy dating. If you spend all your free time hooking up, having meetings to talk about hooking up, you'll be exhausted. All work and no play makes jack a dull boy, so don't lose your mind. Give yourself time to recharge.
One way is to take good care of yourself. There's no reason to spend all your extra money on a date. Get a massage or a nice haircut. Buy some new shirts. Take time to soak in a hot bath, or eat something delicious by yourself. Taking care of yourself will make you more fun, calmer, and better at chubby dating. Taking time to focus on yourself will keep you from losing your mind in the process.
Sign up for Bustr and spend all your time looking for matches and meeting new plus size people, but remember to take some time to take care of yourself and don't let yourself get stuck in a rut, depending on your day job or the place you know.